The Truth About Sex In The Church

Forgive for me I apologize in advance, I feel like I am going to offend many with this topic but I must go there! I wonder if there is anyone else that feels the contradiction within the sexual and the spiritual parts of themselves the war within between their carnality/lust and Christianity. When you love God and sex plus you're unmarried conflicted about whether others can see in me and what God already knows about me. That is how I had the conversion into celibacy to the soul ties that bound my spirit to be free and when do you know when it is time for you to be celibate. For some us sex severely distorts the complex nature of the soul, between love and lust many of us looking for love but often finding lust instead. I have always felt if gone masturbate then you might as well have sex so I don't waste my time like that, however just my opinion. When often time men are more sexual then their counterparts so do meet your partner's needs which many be vastly different as well as your own. Because sex doesn't create love intimacy does. Shame makes a coward out of us then it keeps us in the cycle to continue make unhealthy choices spiritually and sexually. I was watching this and my mouth to floor, "If God made anything better then sex God must have kept it in heaven" I wish that the church would it keep real about the saints having sex cause many are having it married or not! I am celibate at this time but however I am certainly no virgin either.