Becoming Relationship Material

I'm going to bed in just a little bit but since this is heavily on my heart I have to share. Some of us are just NOT relationship material some married people included and here is why God said to love Him with ALL heart mind, soul and strength and love your neighbor as yourself. Now how dare some of us deceive ourselves in praying for your" Boaz "and you know that your not whole yet and loving yourself the way that you should. How are you going to give love to someone else when you have not been able to give that love and respect to yourself first, there is order even in love. It takes two whole people to make a whole relationship yet many want to bring ourselves into a relationship in bits and pieces now you know that you can't truly come to anyone like that but God! God is the healer and a good man can only help you if your already engaged in the process of healing. Your Boaz will be a blessing but he will still be a human being only capable of so much so he is going to have to be able go to God and get his healing too. SN: If your whining, unproductive and unfaithful your blessing WILL NOT be coming to you because you are out of your place... Boaz saw Ruth because she was in the field she was busy being faithful over God had set hands to do!