GETTING FROM RELIGIOSITY INTO RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

I don't what to say about about church folks I won't even say Christians who shun people who don't do everything just like them. Now Jesus ate with tax collector and sinners but since you sanctified now, you can't have dinner with your brother or sister who a has beer or two then you need to get for real with your walk with the Lord. Because I question you are being Christ like or just religious...but "they" gonna see us so what if you are not doing anything wrong. Ministry must start taking place more then just our churches but in our communities and in the streets. Because love isn't there to judge them it is there to restore love doesn't have to beat anyone the head with truth of gospel loves lives the gospel in front of them! If they can't the difference in me by the way I carry myself as a child of God there is no need to go into long spill about how I am a Christian for faith without works is dead. Certain things are NOT a SIN according the Word of God but they are to sin us if they are a snare to our soul. For ALL have sinned and fallen short so if you not falling short in one way you have in another that what makes us sinners all equal in the eyes of God at the foot of the Cross. Those of us who are saved all need to be working out our own soul's salvation with fear and trembling before the Lord. Those who are strong in`faith need be an example to the weak among us...cause us talking Christianity is one thing but living like a follower of Christ is quite another.
Matthew 9: 9 As Jesus went on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector’s booth. “Follow me,” he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him. 10 While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew’s house, many tax collectors and sinners came and ate with him and his disciples. 11 When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?”
12 On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. 13 But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”